Did I never suspect? We started talking, and I got the sense he was interested in me. We went to counselling, together and separately, and he persuaded both me and the counsellor that he was, infact, bisexual. Thank you for your support. We had been making the trek from Chicago for years, but after our dad passed away we decided to keep the tradition going.
We were both curious I guess.
A woman’s story – I married a gay man
Being the trusting soul that I was, I believed him when he said that training had overrun again, the traffic on the way back was terrible, and he must have been in a mobile blackspot on the motorway when I rang for the umpteenth time. One Friday after work, a group of us stopped by a local watering hole to tie a few on. I never really did something with another guy, but I did use to watch two dudes I served with [in the military] mess around in the woods. It was not until I started looking that I found out why. In my darkest moments, I think I am simply a front, and I weep for my precious memories of our sex life, when I can only suppose he was pretending to enjoy himself.
Tidying the house one day, I found a postcard he had been using as a bookmark. They always thought they were being private, but I would see them doing things a lot. We dated for four years before getting married, in a church surrounded by all our families. It was the first time I had ever experienced something with another guy. I thought about hiring a detective, but there was no need. We rely on advertising to help fund our award-winning journalism. The married father of two suddenly found himself navigating the gay dating world for the first time.