Ask him if he's okay with it first. I can't tell you the number of times I've had straight men ask if they can watch, or even join in, and then get offended when we say "NO". There is almost a glorifying of women who choose to take it all off--back in the 70s, views were very different. Hot 0 0 Reply Submit Reply. And much to my surprise, she'd told them all about me. A friendship in which one person just listens while the other talks only about herself isn't real friendship. We were in love, and countless songs and movies told me that was all we needed.
But Professor Diamond has documented that women also go the other way, from homosexual to bisexual.
However, it's hard to deny that lesbian and bisexual behavior has become much more visible in our time compared with one or two generations ago. The guys were so used to pornography and thinking of sex and relationships as entirely focused on them, that they did not know how to satisfy a woman emotionally or sexually. Don't turn around, Serena, I thought.
I think I can also confidently say I notoriously ignore social pressures.