It's pretty clear you'll never have her as a lover, so you can't have what you want. Do I pull her chair out? You know what it's like to connect with people. And it takes stepping out of the friend zone and into your lover self. Do I have a first aid kit? While it doesn't really do strategic matching, options are virtually limitless with tons of women in the vicinity who you probably didn't know existed.
Coming out is like opening up Pandora's box.
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So if anything, it pushes you out of your comfort zone and could give you a serious confidence boost when you start getting responses from those first messages.