Just be careful with straight families shopping around. Spectacular city views and celebrity sightings aside, the acre Runyon Canyon Parklocated right in the heart of Hollywood, is a wonderland of shirtless boys seeking other shirtless boys. So much less attitude I find when going out to bars down under. But unless gay bar owners and community members find new ways to make them feel truly vital and welcoming to everyone, their decline is likely to continue. Sign up for the best of VICE, delivered to your inbox daily. I think that men in small towns, especially those in traditional marriages and families, go to small-town bookstores and public places, or else travel to bathhouses or porn theaters in larger cities—Indianapolis, Milwaukee, Memphis, Dallas—to find what they're looking for.
Coffee shops are places where you can retreat from the bustle of life, read a book, do some work on the computer, and sip your overpriced lavender mocha.
Many of us too are struggling to make ends meet. Caves, Ravines, Shaded, Blocked from view places to toss one off alone or with a friend s. Armstrong, my life was changed forever.
There is something great about being naked in a gay space.