Phil's unsanctioned murder of Vito proved to be a serious point of contention in his working relationship with Tony. John Sacrimoni Request Guys with those qualities might not be bodybuilders, but they are definitely not morbidly obese. Very few men are attracted to morbidly obese men. Tony asked Phil Leotardo to also intervene, because of his involvement in Vito's death. Vito's children read the story, destroying the illusion of their father being a CIA agent. As for how many chubby chasers there are out there?
Paulie and one of Vito's men stole the money, although they were nearly killed by two Colombians guarding the stash.
Being a man is about so much more than what you clearly think. Under the alias "Vince," he took an interest in Antiquities and claimed to be a sportswriter writing a book on Italian boxers. There are polite ways of deflecting interest without insulting that person.
He was a chubby chaser on that as well.