If you do it just right, it is amazingly pleasurable. Spend time safely exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter and how it reacts when you are relaxed or tense. It actually felt kinda good. A week or so ago, we tried it, but we didn't have any lube. Yes, the anus is stretched after anal sex, but it returns to normal soon after. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing. While lots of people enjoy it, many others would prefer to leave it out of their sexual activities.
Ease into it with other anal play first.
The people who took the survey likely felt they had something to say about pain and sex. Continual communication as you progress is the best way to make sure you both enjoy anal sex. Share On tumblr Share On tumblr. We heard you loud and clear:
When you're in the shower or in bed, insert your fingers slowly to see what feels good, says Kort.